How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 10:00

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What I need from you?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
What are some best sources of great porn?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?
That's it for today.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why do I (45, male) feel like I'm crushing on a girl (19, female)?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Hangs out with loser friends.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Can one still satisfy the desires of Black women with a more discreet endowment?"?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Has anyone shared his wife with a friend? How was it?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Why do men love to stink/being smelly?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Ask yourself:
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What should you answer when someone says to you in French, "au plaisir de vous revoir"?
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Procrastinates a lot.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Is it okay for me to wear girls’ underwear?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Does not procrastinate.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.